Check out Episode 1 on the Invisible Femmes YouTube channel!

You can be a part of this incredible new book!

Invisible Femmes: Our Stories is an upcoming book about the experiences of lesbian, bisexual, and queer women who have a feminine appearance. This book will give others the chance to tell their stories about feeling invisible in the LGBTQ community. Femme doesn't have to mean heels and makeup, it simply means you have been mistaken as straight. Femmes have many different styles!  

If you have ever been mistaken as straight or felt invisible in the LGBTQ world please consider sharing your story to possibly be featured in Invisible Femmes: Our Stories. This book is meant to help those who have experienced femme invisibility feel less alone in the community, and to give them a place to share their stories about being mistaken for a straight woman. This book will give us an outlet to tell our stories and connect with other femmes around the world. Go to "Share Your Story" to submit your own personal story of feeling like an invisible femme!

Submit your story if...

  • You ever felt like you had to change how you dressed when you moved to a new town because all of the cute girls thought you were straight.
  • You have ever been out with your girlfriend and had to convince someone that you were actually in a real relationship…with a woman.
  • You ever eyed a girl from across the room only to feel like she thought you were some weirdo with a staring problem, but in reality you were just trying to make eye contact because you were interested in getting to know her.
  • You sometimes feel like it would be easier if you could just tattoo "I love the ladies" across your forehead!